As they grow up kids may develop certain bad habits but mostly it is part of growing up and they overcome those on their own. Of course some bad habits of theirs are worrying and truly exasperating. Many parents worry over the child’s bad behavior. There are some things the parents must know:
1. What you feel is a bad habit may in reality be a part of growing up. For example, if your child is exploring lint between the toes, do not take it as bad habit. It may be that the child is finding toe lint fascinating. He will naturally out grow this habit in due course.
2. Some time what parents feel as bad habit may be for the child a way to comfort him. Some times when the child feels like screaming, instead he may just suck on his clothes. This comforts him and makes him feel secure.
3. Children can use bad habits to seek attention. When they are left for the first time at a day care center, they may feel insecure and start behaving oddly. For example, it could be rubbing the fabric of their clothing. As they settle down in day care center this habit might go away. But in case they don’t feel secure at the center then the habit may turn into bad habit.
4. Some things kids do is beyond the parents, they do not understand why the child is behaving in a particular manner and see it as a bad habit. For example, if the hands are cold, children may keep them between the legs to warm up. Parents may misinterpret the action and overreact. If they realize problem was cold hands, then they would react differently.
5. Punishing and shaming are the worst things to do. If a child is into bad habit in an effort to comfort herself, then making her feel bad about it can be destructive. That is why parents often get stressed while dealing with a child’s bad habits.
6. Replacing a better behavior for the destructive one can work wonders. You tell your child to be conscious of the bad habit. Then, tell them how to replace that with a good habit instead. When they do it, reward them.
7. some times incentives work wonders specially with older children to over come bad habits. This particularly true if the child is old enough to think at least a few weeks ahead. You can offer a reward every time they try not to repeat the bad habit. By the time they get over bad habit a big reward would be waiting for them.
8. Normally, the best thing to do is be patient and bad habits will go away on their own. Do not emphasize on the bad habits, the kids should out grow them. Once they grow older, their school friends will be more attractive and their bad habits will go naturally.
Do not be alarmed about your child’s bad habit. Only if the bad habits are detrimental then it becomes imperative for to put a break on them immediately. Otherwise, with little gentleness and understanding you can easily handle your child’s bad habits effectively.
By: Abhishek Agarwal
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1. What you feel is a bad habit may in reality be a part of growing up. For example, if your child is exploring lint between the toes, do not take it as bad habit. It may be that the child is finding toe lint fascinating. He will naturally out grow this habit in due course.
2. Some time what parents feel as bad habit may be for the child a way to comfort him. Some times when the child feels like screaming, instead he may just suck on his clothes. This comforts him and makes him feel secure.
3. Children can use bad habits to seek attention. When they are left for the first time at a day care center, they may feel insecure and start behaving oddly. For example, it could be rubbing the fabric of their clothing. As they settle down in day care center this habit might go away. But in case they don’t feel secure at the center then the habit may turn into bad habit.
4. Some things kids do is beyond the parents, they do not understand why the child is behaving in a particular manner and see it as a bad habit. For example, if the hands are cold, children may keep them between the legs to warm up. Parents may misinterpret the action and overreact. If they realize problem was cold hands, then they would react differently.
5. Punishing and shaming are the worst things to do. If a child is into bad habit in an effort to comfort herself, then making her feel bad about it can be destructive. That is why parents often get stressed while dealing with a child’s bad habits.
6. Replacing a better behavior for the destructive one can work wonders. You tell your child to be conscious of the bad habit. Then, tell them how to replace that with a good habit instead. When they do it, reward them.
7. some times incentives work wonders specially with older children to over come bad habits. This particularly true if the child is old enough to think at least a few weeks ahead. You can offer a reward every time they try not to repeat the bad habit. By the time they get over bad habit a big reward would be waiting for them.
8. Normally, the best thing to do is be patient and bad habits will go away on their own. Do not emphasize on the bad habits, the kids should out grow them. Once they grow older, their school friends will be more attractive and their bad habits will go naturally.
Do not be alarmed about your child’s bad habit. Only if the bad habits are detrimental then it becomes imperative for to put a break on them immediately. Otherwise, with little gentleness and understanding you can easily handle your child’s bad habits effectively.
By: Abhishek Agarwal
About the Author:
Abhishek is a self-development expert and he has got some great tips on Getting Rid Of Bad Habits . Download his FREE 42 Pages Ebook, “How To Kick Bad Habits Out Of Your Life!” from his website http://www.Positive-You.com/33/index.htm. Only limited Free Copies available.
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