May 30
habit
Millions of people around the world make new years resolutions each year. A very high percentage of them are in hopes of breaking bad habits that have seemingly overtaken their lives, but have left many disappointed, and realizing just how difficult breaking un-wanted habits can actually be.

To break bad habits one must first understand what they are and how they are developed in the first place. Until one can really understand how these habits are developed, they will never accomplish the task of getting rid of them. So I have personally put in thousands of hours to find effective ways in helping people get rid of what I like to call their “hook habits”, of which, I am now ready to share my conclusion with those who have an interest. So let’s get started.

What Are Bad Habits?

Bad habits are repetitious actions, deeds, and motives that have no profitable outcome for one’s life at all. In almost all cases, bad habits either do harm to a person’s body, causes them to look bad, feel shame, get in trouble with the law or their spouse, lose friends and love ones, or to spend a lot of money just to start the negative repetitious process all over again. It sounds like something someone would really want to be a part of huh? Well, don’t be surprised, there are millions of people throughout the world who are trapped, hooked and overtaken by bad habits, and some would do almost anything to get freed from them!

How Do People Develop Bad Habits?

Most people develop bad habits by practicing or emulating what they see or hear in others. People in general have a tendency to pick up a little “Character Development” from here and there, although often time, the very thing they pick up is definitely not what they need.

There is also a percentage of New Born Babies born with what I call “Fixations”. They are born with that something within that causes various behaviors not taught nor exposed to them, to manifest themselves in their characteristics at a very young age. For instance, you didn’t have to teach little Johnny to lie about the cookies he took out of the cookie jar when you weren’t around, although, you did ask him if he had taken the cookies, and of course, he said no. Did you teach little Johnny to tell that lie? No you did not, but it was in him all the time, he was born with it in him. But there is good news; all bad habits can be broken!

Surely most bad habits weren’t developed over night, and I can assure you that they won’t go away over night either. But those who take in the following information will surely find their way to victory over these un- wnated and un-needed habits:

Instead of making new years resolutions every New Years Eve, start making changes by replacing every bad habit with a better habit. That’s right! It’s just that simple. Most people try to go “Cold Turkey” when it comes down to breaking a bad habit. But I have found out in my personal experience, that if a person would find something they enjoy doing (that’s not a bad habit of course), and they don’t mind it becoming habitual, then that person should gradually replace the bad habit with the better habit until the better habit becomes the new habit. How is this task accomplish, buy simply being conscious of every time the bad habits manifest themselves, and then stopping the bad habits one by one immediately once noticed, while at the same time implementing the new things you enjoy doing until they becomes the replaced habits.

Sincerely written by,

Michael Bell

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By: Michael Bell

About the Author:

Michael Bell, Lansing, Michigan.



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May 26
habit
Kids go through periods of having bad habits. Some of their bad habits are worrisome and some are just really annoying. Parents agonize over what to do about their children’s unacceptable behaviors. There are a few things they should know.

1. What you see as bad habits may actually be natural stages of child development. If your very young child is examining the lint between his toes regularly, you might think it is a bad habit. It might be, though, that the child simply finds toe lint interesting. The child will outgrow the fascination and the bad habit will disappear.

2. So-called bad habits may be ways for the child to soothe themselves. At times when they would ordinarily feel like screaming and crying, they may suck on their clothes instead. This makes them feel calm and secure.

3. Children may use bad habits to feel a sense of control over their environment. If they are dropped off at a daycare center for the first time, they may start having odd behaviors. This could be, for instance, rubbing the material of their clothing. As time goes by, if the daycare center continues to feel threatening to them, rubbing the clothing material could become a bad habit.

4. Kids sometimes do things adults see as bad habits that they do not understand. Sometimes, the kids are simply solving a problem. If their hands are cold, they may put them between their legs to warm them up. Adults often misinterpret this and overreact. If they knew the problem was cold hands, they might have a different solution to offer.

5. Shaming and punishment are the worst things you can do. If a child is doing the bad habits in an effort to soothe herself, making her feel bad is counterproductive. It will give her more to self-soothe about. This is why parents often become frustrated when trying to deal with a child’s bad habits.

6. Substituting more pleasant behaviors for the annoying or destructive bad habits can work better. You can teach your child to be aware of when they are doing a bad habit. Then, you can teach them another behavior to do instead. When they do, reward them.

7. Incentives work to help some older children get over bad habits. This is especially true if they are old enough to think in the long term of at least a few weeks. You can offer them a reward every day that they do not do their bad habits. By the time they have quit, they will have a large reward waiting.

8. Usually, the best thing you can do is to wait for the bad habits to go away all on their own. As long as you do not reinforce the bad habits by doing them yourself, the kids should grow out of them. Once they get older, their school mates will make it more attractive to them to stop doing their bad habits. Kids like to fit in.

The most important thing to remember about your child’s bad habits is that you should not be too alarmed. Only when they are destructive or dangerous is it essential for you to stop them immediately. Otherwise, be understanding and gentle when dealing with your kid’s bad habits.



By: Arjun Singhe

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May 20
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As they grow up kids may develop certain bad habits but mostly it is part of growing up and they overcome those on their own. Of course some bad habits of theirs are worrying and truly exasperating. Many parents worry over the child’s bad behavior. There are some things the parents must know:

1. What you feel is a bad habit may in reality be a part of growing up. For example, if your child is exploring lint between the toes, do not take it as bad habit. It may be that the child is finding toe lint fascinating. He will naturally out grow this habit in due course.

2. Some time what parents feel as bad habit may be for the child a way to comfort him. Some times when the child feels like screaming, instead he may just suck on his clothes. This comforts him and makes him feel secure.

3. Children can use bad habits to seek attention. When they are left for the first time at a day care center, they may feel insecure and start behaving oddly. For example, it could be rubbing the fabric of their clothing. As they settle down in day care center this habit might go away. But in case they don’t feel secure at the center then the habit may turn into bad habit.

4. Some things kids do is beyond the parents, they do not understand why the child is behaving in a particular manner and see it as a bad habit. For example, if the hands are cold, children may keep them between the legs to warm up. Parents may misinterpret the action and overreact. If they realize problem was cold hands, then they would react differently.

5. Punishing and shaming are the worst things to do. If a child is into bad habit in an effort to comfort herself, then making her feel bad about it can be destructive. That is why parents often get stressed while dealing with a child’s bad habits.

6. Replacing a better behavior for the destructive one can work wonders. You tell your child to be conscious of the bad habit. Then, tell them how to replace that with a good habit instead. When they do it, reward them.

7. some times incentives work wonders specially with older children to over come bad habits. This particularly true if the child is old enough to think at least a few weeks ahead. You can offer a reward every time they try not to repeat the bad habit. By the time they get over bad habit a big reward would be waiting for them.

8. Normally, the best thing to do is be patient and bad habits will go away on their own. Do not emphasize on the bad habits, the kids should out grow them. Once they grow older, their school friends will be more attractive and their bad habits will go naturally.

Do not be alarmed about your child’s bad habit. Only if the bad habits are detrimental then it becomes imperative for to put a break on them immediately. Otherwise, with little gentleness and understanding you can easily handle your child’s bad habits effectively.



By: Abhishek Agarwal

About the Author:

Abhishek is a self-development expert and he has got some great tips on Getting Rid Of Bad Habits . Download his FREE 42 Pages Ebook, “How To Kick Bad Habits Out Of Your Life!” from his website http://www.Positive-You.com/33/index.htm. Only limited Free Copies available.



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May 20
habit
We all have personal habits that we act out on a daily basis.  Some habits are positive and contribute to a healthier and happier you and others are counterproductive and can prevent personal growth. You want to focus on maintaining and adopting the good habits in both your personal and business life and rid yourself of those habits that will not help you move forward.

Good Personal Habits

There are several excellent habits that you should maintain if you already practice them. If these habits are new to you then slowly try to make them your own as they can only benefit you and the people around you.

Focus on taking care of yourself. Try to eat natural and healthy foods to keep your body strong and well. This does not mean you will never have a steak or enjoy a piece of cheesecake. It does mean moderation in all things. The steak and the cake should be special treats instead of everyday fare. Try to exercise daily, as this will also make you strong and healthy. Keep to a regular routine whether walking in the morning or stopping at the gym on the way home from working. By making nutrition and exercise personal habits you will live longer and be less likely to fall ill.

Make it a habit to get at least 6-8 hours of sleep every night. A good night’s sleep will help you stay alert and active throughout the day. It is just as important to allow your brain to rest as well as your body. The medical community states that at least 6 hours of sleep are mandatory to maintain a healthy mind.

Set aside time everyday for yourself.  Take ½ hour in the morning or an hour at lunchtime or 45 minutes at night to do something for you. Relax and read a newspaper, meditate, watch your favorite TV show or bake a cake. Do something that you enjoy.  This will also help you rejuvenate and allow for personal reflection.

Good Moral Habits

Personal habits do not have to be a specific action. Personal habits can also be a way of living.  For example, making a habit of treating others as you wish to be treated is an excellent way of living. This behavior sets a good example of how important it is to be considerate to others. Another excellent moral habit is to take part in conservation activities such as recycling newspapers and bottles and cans or spend a day every month volunteering at your neighborhood soup kitchen or participating in some other activity.

Good Work Habits

Another area of your life to adopt good habits is in the workplace. A good work ethic will impress your supervisor and will only serve to move you ahead in your company. Always be sure to arrive at work a little early so you have time to prepare for the day. Never leave work early unless you have received your supervisor’s permission. When you find yourself with free time on your hands make it a habit of asking your supervisor if there is any more work or a co-worker who needs help. Make it a habit to never speak ill of a co-worker or manager or a policy or procedure regardless of your personal feelings. Also refrain from listening to or spreading office gossip. Always try a stay upbeat and positive at work and never complain.

Goodbye Bad Habits  

Like all of us, you have bad habits and you can get rid of them with a little effort and self-discipline. When trying to get rid of a bad habit ask for help from those around you. For example, if you are trying to stop smoking ask friends and family to discourage you from lighting up. Take note of the circumstances under which you might engage in the bad habit. For example if you tend to chew your nails when you are nervous try to avoid those situations that make you anxious until you can conquer this behavior. Through determination, will power and support you can rid yourself of your bad habits.



By: Victor Ghebre

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