May 21
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You may get the feeling that you have dodged the bad habits that others have, unless you spot yourself learning bad habits from others around you. The people may not pass on their bad habits intentionally, but you get affected all the same.

There are chances that you learn bad habits from others like they eat. In case you spend a lot of time with a person, you may start eating in the similar manner. It is always easier to prepare one meal and share it. It is always simpler to go to one restaurant to eat instead of two. If that particular restaurant offers only greasy foods, chances are you end up ordering the dishes you normally wouldn’t eat. This way you are sure to pick up your friend’s bad habit.

Smoking is another bad habit people easily pick up from others. If you share the room with your smoker companion every evening, you slowly either get sick of it or get accustomed to it. You may perhaps start enjoying it. That is when there is a possibility that you pick up the bad habit.

Arguing with each other is a bad habit which quite a few partners get into in a relationship. Your spouse may begin a brawl. You may not want to get into an argument. But your spouse might not let you walk out. However, a fight starts and soon both are in it. This may become a regular issue and thus turn into a bad habit.

In the office, sloppiness is very contagious. If one team member is also careless with the weighty gear, his stance can pollute the attitude of rest of the workers. Before you realize, they all are into bad habit of getting careless at work. In case one worker gets into the bad habit of telling all he knows, the habit spreads. If one gives out his pay, soon all will. If one talks private organization business, the gossip will spread. The bad habits can really get out of control.

In case you are in the habit proving yourself superior to others even when you are not, this habit can easily be picked up by others. A person tells something he did, and you tell a better thing you did. Somebody might follow you and try to one-up you. This may go on endlessly.

Pessimism is another bad habit. Pessimistic people always look at the negative side of all. This can rub off to anyone spending a lot of time with them. Such people can only think of bad things that can happen and before you realize you have been affected by this attitude. You may be next one to predict doom in the future.

Of course, you can not hold the other person responsible for choice you make. That is up to you. If you want to evade bad habits of others, you can if you are determined. Do not forget you need not always match up to those around you.



By: Abhishek Agarwal

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May 17
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Some bad habits are not only illegal. They push the envelope of what can be considered merely bad habits. However, in a way they are bad habits. They are definitely bad, and they happen frequently enough to call them habits.

Serious fighting can be illegal bad habits. This is the kind of fighting that leads to assault arrests and convictions. People do not think before they act. Or, if they do, they only think angry, destructive thoughts. This fighting can cause injury or even death.

Some fighting happens in bars. Barroom fights are bad habits. Too many people are intoxicated. There are not enough reasonable people in the room to calm things down. There are also often shortages in bars.

There may be a shortage of available men, or of available women. There may not be enough places to sit. This causes animosity, which leads to fighting. Just being in a bar where fights are known to occur is sometimes a bad habit.

Some people, both men and women, have bad habits of domestic violence. They do not think twice about hitting their partner in the face on the way in the door. They have no compunctions about throwing their spouse on the floor, even if she is pregnant. Are these bad habits? Yes, they are the most extreme forms of bad habits.

There are illegal money transactions that are bad habits. There are many forms of illegal gambling. There are restrictions in every state about where gambling can take place. The kind of gambling is also regulated. Abiding by these rules will keep you out of jail. It will also keep you from losing money in a betting scam.

Shoplifting is an illegal bad habit that young people get hooked into before they even think about it. One day they are going to the store and trying on clothing to purchase. The next day, they are going to the store to see what they can stuff under their coats. This can give a young person a very bad start in life. It can also give them bad habits that are hard to break.

Sometimes, people who deal with other people’s money decide to borrow a little for an emergency. They find out how easy it is, and they do it again and again. Eventually it becomes the bad habit known as embezzlement. This can land them in jail for years and cause them to pay restitution for the rest of their lives. It can also put the people they took the money from in a terrible situation.

Arson is not always a malicious act. It is not always a well thought out scheme to collect insurance money. Some arsonists simply have a bad habit of starting fires. They are obsessed with flames and torch buildings for their twisted pleasure. It is a bad habit that can cause incredible destruction.

Bad habits are more than just picking your nose. There are bad habits that can destroy property and ruin lives. It is these behaviors that society must work on.



By: Arjun Singhe

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